This is an old recipe- my word- it's amazing how recipes can take us back. I got this from Mitch in Gatineau, Québec, Canada. That found it in a cookbook she bought over 25 yrs ago now. This rich, sweet, sinful, delicious dessert is not called "Sex in a pan" for nothing. You decide. LOL Great for any occasion. One of my favourite desserts from Canada. YES it's not the healthiest with artifical cool whip and instant puddings having so much sodium BUT people only have it once in awhile and life is too short to be such a party pooper.. so don't make it don't eat it and the rest of us will ENJOY what we know is a GREAT "to die for...treat"! The name says it all SEX in a pan..it's that good! ... Yummy!