Mix first seven ingredients in a small bowl. (The baking powder blobs up so you have to stir really well until it dissolves).
Spray a heated pan with non-stick spray and pour in half of the mixture. It will immediately sort of fluff up like a pancake. Brown on one side and flip. I cooked about 2 minutes on each side.
The "frosting" for this is optional; mix together the last three ingredients in a small cup and spread on pancakes. You can experiment with the ingredients to alter the sweetness. Also, try topping with some fat free yogurt in phase 2.