In a large sauce pan heat oil over medium heat and add the onion& garlic.
Cool until the onion is turning LIGHT brown.
Remove from heat and add the honey and mashed squash.
Stir well.
Place a small abount of sauce in the bottom of a shallow 2 quart oven safe dish.
Place 3 noodles on the sauce and spread with half the squash mixture, half the cottage cheese and 1/3 of the tomato sauce, then half the mozzarella-repeat layers ending up with the sauce, then sprinkle the parmesan cheese on top.
Bake in a 350 degree oven for 35-45 minutes.
To make the sauce: Heat the oil in a medium sauce pan and saute the onion and garlic until soft.
Add sugar, herbs and pepper along with the tomatoes and cook for 20 minutes.