Steam or lightly boil the chopped nuts until al dente. (The nuts may also be sauteed with cinnamon and butter for an added twist)
Combine 3 boxes of pudding mix with 4 cups of milk. Mix for 2 minutes on low speed and 2 minutes on medium speed (scraping the sides and bottom for loose powder as needed)Hand mix in the vanilla and almond extract, set aside.
Combine bananas and nuts.
Layer a normal square cake pan first with pudding mixture then with vanilla wafers, then with banana nut mixture. Continue this step until you are out of components or your pan is full.