Father of two boys. I have owned a baby/kids furniture store for the past twelve years. I do all the cooking and shopping for the family. Cooking is my way of relaxing after a stressful day. And believe me...12 years of dealing with hormones on a daily basis can be stressful! Used to weigh 300 lbs but had a gastric banding about four years ago and now am at 165 lbs. These days I get accused of making EVERYONE ELSE FAT by cooking for them and not eating! Having been a large person I find it horrifying when other large people are treated without respect and dignity.