Gday and big thanks for your question and in posting here
OK, I have a sugar related issue but not diabetes, so know HOW important it is to limit sugars of ALL kinds
Has your DH doc provided some sort of guideline or a nutritionist or is he and you basically on your own
Do you have a budget? as in my opinion, the first thing you should do is figure out what your budget is; you already mentioned you have limited time and DH is fussy...
OK, fussy vs good health, WHICH will your DH choose?
While MOST people, males AND females perceive that a change of lifestyle (I don't use the word diet) is about nibbling on carrots, celery etc....
I am on a doc directed lifestyle and the weight FELL off me as it is in discipline, changes. His book is called the Dinosaur Gene (you can google it through Amazon) and it explains various conditions and what symptoms are related to it...
The main key is a variety of fresh ingredients...FRESH, from scratch, start reading labels, make your own sauces ie tomato as there are HEAPS of hidden sugars...comes in the name of dextrose, maltodextrose, aspertame NO SPLENDA!!! As it contains YUP!
NO EQUAL!! Contains ...YUP!
I would suggest Xylitol which can be obtained at a health food store, has the same characteristics and taste of sugar but not the same effects in the body I am NOT a fan of Stevia....
With the holidays coming, it is probably not the best time to HAVE to make the changes, but WHAT is the alternative...continued poor health, symptoms, doctor visits, blood tests, hosptializations
think you get the picture...
DH will have to WANT to change....
I would suggest making small changes which will in turn change into MUCH bigger changes and it IS amazing the differences in just 6 weeks...you CAN stop cravings etc...
alcohol...YUP sugar...
Not lecturing...as LIVE this life too, but I look at it as a challenge and as people here will attest, I cook all the time as I am PASSIONATE about it...prepare meals in bulk saving money etc...and this way if you make it at home, you know what goes into it...
no frozen foods...contain too much salt
no prepackaged items...hidden salt...
If you make a list of things DH likes and not...am sure we can all try and help re dishes...
also look for dishes that are higher in protein than carbs...need to limit potatoes, pasta, rice etc...
Initially it IS overwheliming...but after a while, becomes easy peasy even with limited time
For me the choice is simple...I CHOOSE to LIVE
Hope this helps...
Exercise...even minimal is the key...see per hubby's doc what would be most beneficial for him to do daily...
as each step adds up
And initially, I always recommend keeping a food diary of EVERYTHING one east, drinks and HOW much as have found food portions can be HEAPS less....but most people don't believe it ...
Hope this helps
WHOO HOO!