Oh

I am SO happy to see some of you posting!!!!
French Tart, it seems (not that she ever really chatted) seems (as her page says) "lost in France ..."
I am still the same old, same old ...
My darling only child and his family (2 grands) cannot make it to us over Christmas, as he has his own agricultural-financing business, and we are just too far away -- about 700 km/500 miles on a highway which must have the most speed limits and hidden speed cameras than anywhere in the world, which makes it slow and really not worth the effort.
So it's DH and me, and sister and her DH. I am over-organising as usual. They'll be here for the weekend, none of us want to eat a midday dinner, so I had to plan for 2 festive nightly dinners plus the lunch snacks in between.
As I told her when she kept saying (YOU know the refrain) "don't go to any trouble!" it's NOT going to the
trouble!! It's the bloody planning!!
When to make the sauces, when to defrost the huge ducks,
when to defrost the calamari (starter), when to use the ovens, which veggies to prepare. I do NOT mind the actual cooking. It is the
organisation which gets to me!!
I've laid the table, simple as it is -- and I must remember to take a photo for Dreamgoddess's forum, whatever it's called: "Decor and ... something" forum.
So far it's been Murphy's Law: our main landline phone went dead. (Service??? This time of year??? In South Africa???

)
My aged mother, nearly 93, is, thank God, with my brother and wife (WAYYY closer to her retirement home than we are).
My menu,
depending on Murphy's Law:
Christmas Eve, main dinner:
Salad with calamari in a dressing made from lemon juice, olive oil and capers. I'll add S A peppadews and probably a few marinated olives.
Roast Ducks with the cherry, port and redcurrant sauce I have on this site.
Fresh green beans from my organic garden
Young peas (
from 2 tins

)
(Rest to be decided ...)
Fresh organic salad from my garden.
Ice cream with some kind of sauce for those who still need sweetness ... (We are not great dessert eaters).
My dear friends, (who I miss so much on this thread), I'll probably look in again -- but have a good Christmas and for heaven's sake, let the men and the boys clear up, wah up and dry and put away after the meals!!